All Things Cherished is Updated

Have you noticed? I got a blog overhaul.

I was extremely excited and surprised to hear from Pamela and the 5 Minutes for Mom team during the Ultimate Blog Party. I won prize INTL 28, a Sassy Frass blog design.

I got a new custom header with matching background, revamped columns, a button you can grab, five buttons for my sidebar, and a signature button. Whoo hoo!

Melanie from Sassy Chic Designs was pleasant, patient, and professional.

I'm so excited about the new look of the blog. What do you think? Please be kind, though.

Since Melanie did such a super job on my blog I wanted to introduce her to you, my readers.

Melanie, a wife, mother, and employee. She enjoys blogging, photography, scrapbooking, sewing, cooking, and, of course, sassing blogs. Melanie had so much fun learning how to make her blog unique to reflect her distinctive personality that she now will help you do the same; hence Sassy Chic Designs. Melanie says,"Your blog is your home online and you have your house decorated, right?, so let's get your blog decorated."

Save the Internet

When we log onto the Internet, we take a lot for granted. We assume we'll be able to access any Web site we want, whenever we want, at the fastest speed, whether it's a corporate or mom-and-pop site. We assume that we can use any service we like -- watching online video, listening to podcasts, sending instant messages -- anytime we choose.

What makes all these assumptions possible is Network Neutrality.

Network Neutrality -- or "Net Neutrality" for short -- is the guiding principle that preserves the free and open Internet. Put simply, Net Neutrality means no discrimination. Net Neutrality prevents Internet providers from blocking, speeding up or slowing down Web content based on its source, ownership or destination.

Who wants to get rid of Net Neutrality?

The nation's largest telephone and cable companies -- including AT&T, Verizon, Comcast and Time Warner -- want to be Internet gatekeepers, deciding which Web sites go fast or slow and which won't load at all.

But as a consequence of a 2005 decision by the Federal Communications Commission, Net Neutrality -- the foundation of the free and open Internet -- was put in jeopardy. Now cable and phone company lobbyists are pushing to block legislation that would reinstate Net Neutrality.

Writing Net Neutrality into law would preserve the freedoms we currently enjoy on the Internet. For all their talk about "deregulation," the cable and telephone giants don't want real competition. They want special rules written in their favor.

Learn how to tell apart the myths from the realities in this report, Network Neutrality: Fact vs. Fiction.

Who's part of the SavetheInternet.com Coalition?

The Save the Internet coalition is made up of hundreds of groups from across the political spectrum that are concerned about maintaining a free and open Internet. No corporation or political party funds our efforts. We simply agree to a statement of principles in support of Internet freedom.
The coalition is being coordinated by Free Press, a national, nonpartisan organization focused on media reform and Internet policy issues.

What can I do to help?

• Sign the Save the Internet petition.
• Call your members of Congress today and demand that Net Neutrality be protected.
• Encourage groups you're part of to sign the "Internet Freedom Declaration of 2007".
• Show your support for Internet freedom on your Web site or blog.
• Tell your friends about this crucial issue before it's too late.

If you are interested in Saving the Internet, write about it on your blog, then link to Mr. Linky below by using the permalink to your post.

Thought of the Day - 4/16/09

It is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works. All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get.
~~ Morarji Desai ~~

Yes, it may take longer than you expected to find true love or close on that new condominium, but remember, great things come to those who wait. Be patient and avoid negativity along the way

Works for Me Wednesday #16

For some great FREE resources check out the Homeschool Freebie of the Day site.

You can get a new free download every Monday through Friday to add to your homeschool &/or private library.

If you join the Homeschool Freebies Alert Email List you will get an advanced notice so that you will remember to get your download on the respective day.

Some recent resources include:
The House You Live In
Hand Sewing Lessons
Birdwatching for Beginners
Great Time Management Tips for Your Kids
Time Saving Tips for Busy Parents and Families

Check it out at http://www.homeschoolfreebieoftheday.com.

To get more household tips, organizational ideas, and much more go to We are THAT Family.

Bloggers Unite

Bloggers Unite is an attempt to harness the power of the blogosphere to make the world a better place. By asking bloggers to write about a particular subject, a single voice can be joined with thousands to help make a difference.

How To Participate

1. Find or create an event that you are passionate about.
2. Add a badge to your blog and help spread the word.
3. On the day of the event, write a blog post.
4. Share your post with the Bloggers Unite community.

I am a member of Bloggers Unite and hope you will join me.

National Mom's Nite Out

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Everywhere, USA

National Mom’s Nite Out is the first nationally organized celebration of motherhood. Intended to bring together today’s moms, physically and virtually, National Mom’s Nite Out will unite over 150 social media groups, companies, local playgroups, mommy bloggers, and mother social networks in giving moms a well deserved night off.

Thought of the Day - 4/15/09

Just do what you do best.

If you had to pick the one thing that you do best, what would it be? Perhaps you’re a chef extraordinaire, have an eye for style and design or plan parties like a pro. Tap into your talents this weekend, and who knows? You may decide you want to cook for a living, enroll in interior design school, or start your own event-planning company.

What do you do best? Tell us in the comments.

Business Blogging

Blogging in the last few years have become more and more popular. In fact, it is now a common household term. Most everyone with a computer now has a blog, irregardless if they are business people, work at home people, or even the stay at home moms. If you haven’t jumped into blogging, here are a few reasons why you should start blogging now.

If you haven’t noticed, blogs are a great communication tool. If you blog about your business, your blog will most likely have posts that focus on your business but, that doesn’t mean you can’t let your hair down a little. It’s quite alright to post about your personal life sometimes. You don’t have to go into detail - just enough for your readers to be able to relate to you.


Blogging allows you to let your “voice” be heard. Your readers will get to know you a bit more and you will be able to form a relationship with them. Soon, you will have some kind of interactivity with your readers especially when you allow them to comment on your blog. When possible, reply back to the comments. The back and forth bantering and conversation-style writing will keep your readers coming back for more.

You can use your blog as a way to figure out what your readers want from you. Ask them to leave you suggestions or questions about your business. You can even use these as the beginning of a new blog post/discussion. When you address questions from readers and you provide them with the answers they are looking for, you instantly promote yourself as an expert in your field. Soon, your readers and visitors will develop trust in you and your opinions.

Trust is a wonderful thing. The more people trust you, the more they will use and recommend your product/s. People only do business with people they know and trust. Blogging allows you to give your readers a sneak peek into your life and how you work.

If you already have a traditional website, blogging is an awesome way to promote your website. Blog about articles that are in your website - blog only a snippet of the article - like a teaser and add a link to the complete article in your website. This is an easy way to get incoming links to your existing site in your blog posts.

Blogs are also an excellent way to enhance your writing skills. Blog entries do not have to be very long.

Review Your Values

Blog Gone Stale?

Run Out of Ideas? Help Is Here and It's FREE

Here's the problem with blogging. Thinking up what to blog about daily is exhausting. Researching, developing activities, planning posts takes up a lot of time. As if that isn't bad enough, when doing your research, it is so easy to get sucked up into other peoples' blogs and not accomplishing anything at the end of the day.

Blog Energizer can help. We find stuff for you to blog about. All you have to do is pick them up.

Tuesday Toot #10

As I continue with my struggle to toot my own horn . . .

This week's toot . . .

1. I have been taking all of my pills for one week straight. I was on 17 different kinds of medications but within the past few weeks I finally got it narrowed down to 8 pills (up to 24 doses, though). Having a pill organizer helps tremendously.
2. I got my cards sent for the "I Love Being Carded" Card Swap.
3. I'm still doing my hand exercises that my Occupational Therapist wants me to do.
4. I created a chart for two of my children to use for an anger chart. Nothing fancy but it will work for the purpose I need it to work.
5. I finished all the Easter decorations before Easter.

To join this meme go to Mommy Community.

Unconscious Mutterings #6

Nina says... and I think...

Animal :: My lovable Chihuahua.
Temporary :: Insanity. Being the single mother of 3, I feel I reach the insanity level often. : )
Moan :: Groan.
Rapid :: REM (rapid eye movement).
That’s for me to say :: A phrase you don't like to hear from your parents. Almost as bad as "Because I said so."
City :: Butler, PA.
Bumper :: Cars.
Eclipse :: Shadow.
Problematic :: Children.
If :: "If only" thoughts are a waste of time, but we all do it.

What do YOU think? Go to Subliminal to participate?

Thought of the Day - 4/14/09

If you want to be a winner, hang around with winners.
~~ Christopher D. Furman ~~

Top Ten Tuesday - Reasons I Love My Son

This week, on Thursday, my son celebrates his 11th birthday, so in honor of his first decade being over . . . and beginning the next decade . . .

I love Cameron because . . .

1. I love his laugh, it bubbles out in an infectious wholehearted way.
2. I love his big hugs he gives me every morning.
3. I love his big beautiful blue eyes.
4. I love how protective you are of your sister, especially if she is sad.
5. I love how you often check on me while you are playing, running to whatever room I am in saying, "Hi, mom."
6. I love how you say "I love you" every night before you go to sleep.
7. I love how you sing so heartfully even though you don't know the words.
8. I love the love and affection you show to your sister every night with a great big bear hug with a little silliness thrown in.
9. I love how you tell jokes that only you understand and be totally amused by your own silliness.
10. I love your wonderfully beautifully cute smile.

To join others and read their list of tens, go to Amanda's blog.

Love, Doubt, and Thumbs

He told me he loved me. I listened with only half an ear. The rest of my attention strayed. Perhaps our family values were different. Perhaps our religious values were different. Perhaps . . . I was using anything that came along to divert my thoughts from exactly the questions I should be carefully thinking over. Trying to solve the puzzle of my son's mental health issues is more savory to me than the conundrum my own life had become.

I should be happy, right? He said he loves me. But it was not from whom I expected or wanted it from.

I have made mistakes in the past. No doubt I am going to make a lot more. The trouble came with making choices that felt so right or so good while they were in progress. I gave my eldest son up for adoption 20 years ago and it still felt like the right choice. So why lately does it hurt so much?

With being "down for the count" for over 48 hours due to shots received in my right shoulder, I have had too much time to think, and then my mind rambles. I have been looking deep inside myself trying to discover who I am.

I am still searching for me but I do know that I am an independent, single mother who still needs love and still craves sucking her thumb when not feeling well.

Adventure Is As Near As Stepping Out Your Front Door

Blogging Tips #1 - Tracking Your Blog in the Blogosphere

Are you curious who reads you? Do you want to know more about the people who link to you? Are you curious if someone is writing about the things you’ve said?

Bloggers love feedback. Whether it’s comments or emails, knowing that someone else out there was touched in some way by our writing gives us fuel to continue blogging. So how do you track what others are saying about you? What if there exists a whole group of fans who link to you, talk about you, but don’t send emails or leave comments?

The following is a primer on how to track conversations in the blogosphere.

Permalinks, Addresses and URL’s
The first thing to learn is your website URL. URL stands for Uniform Resource Locator, and is the “address” of your site on the Internet. A permalink is the the address, (or URL) of a specific blog post. When searching, learn to type in your main or homepage url to find people linking to you.

For best results in searches, skip the www.

Technorati
This is the big daddy of blog search. Technorati allows you to search by url, by tags, and in a directory.

Step 1: Claim your blog. Technorati has to know you are there to track what you are doing. Claim your blog, sign in to an account, and list a bunch of keywords that people can use to find your site. There are over 6,000 Mom blogs already in Technorati, so be creative with your tags.

Step 2: URL search. Find Posts that link to you. Type the URL of your blog into the box and click search. What comes up are all of the blogs that currently link to your blog. You can rank them by freshness, or authority, and it is the most comprehensive list. Not everyone is listed, but Technorati is a great way to find out who is linking to you.

Step 3: Searching in Tags. Tags are labels that people put into their post. Wordpress and Typepad allow you to customize your site to add Technorati tags, and it is a powerful way to push your posts to a larger topic. Check out “pregnancy” as a tag or “after school snacks.” As you can see, there aren’t many posts for after school snacks (only 22,000), but it does tell you when someone last wrote about them. The more specific you are in your tags, the better chance you have of being found. Pregnancy has more than 354,000 tags so the more specific, the better.

Step 4: Search in Directory. The tags you wrote when you claimed your blog places you in categories in the directory. While a tag search looks for individual posts, a directory search looks for blog descriptions.

Google Searches
The simplest way to track your blog in Google, or any search engine, is to type http://www.yourblogurl.com. This should bring up a list of all the pages cached in Google that link specifically to your website. This works fine for high ranking blogs, but it’s not complete, and doesn’t tell you a time reference.

For great ways to use Google to search out all kinds of topics, check out their cheat sheet.

Google Alerts
Log in to Google (create a personal account if you do not already have one) and create Google alerts. These emails track keywords, names, and websites you enter and forward them to you when Google first caches them Google alerts work both to tell when someone is linking to you and when they are speaking of you without a link.

BlogPulse
Search engines all have different algorithms, so for fun, type your name and blog into different search engines to get different results:
Sphere
Blogger
MSN Live
Ask.com
Dogpile
Blogpulse

There are literally hundreds of different ways to track yourself in the blogosphere. Find the sites you like best and join in the conversation.

Make Me Laugh Monday - Five Tips for Women

Five tips for women:
1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.
4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.
5. It is important that these four men don't know each other.


Join me in the fun and giggles of making Mondays a better day by sharing some laughs. Add your link to your Make Me Laugh Monday post to Mr. Linky below. (All links not leading directly to your post will be deleted. All posts should be funny in some way. Yes, this is up to interpretation. Ideas include riddles, comic strips, jokes, silly graphics, funny lyrics, etc.)

Thought of the Day - 4/13/09

You see things and you say 'Why?' But I dream things that never were, and I say 'Why not?'

~~ George Bernard Shaw ~~

Have you ever told yourself that you couldn’t do something? Well, why not? You may not be able to play an instrument tomorrow or speak a foreign language fluently by next week, but you can definitely start working on it. Take the time today to think about what you may have been holding yourself back from doing over the years.

What one thing have you been holding yourself back from? Tell us in the comments.

More Than Colored Eggs

Jesus is THE reason for the season!

Thought of the Day - 4/12/09

Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up.
~~ Jesse Jackson ~~

Happy Easter!

Dear Lord Jesus Christ, who upon this day did conquer death and rise from the dead, and who lives forever more, help us never to forget Your presence is forever with us.

Help us to remember,

That you are with us in times of perplexity to guide and direct,
That you are with us in times of sorrow to comfort and console,
That you are with us in times of temptation to strengthen and inspire,
That you are with us in times of loneliness to cheer and befriend,
That you are with us even in death to bring us to the glory of Your side.

Lord in your mercy, please hear our prayer. Amen.



Christ the Lord is risen today! Hallelujah!

Addicted

It is official I am addicted to blogs and blogging. I love reading about other people's lives and also sharing my life with others. I can learn about people and their lives, as well as, share mine. It is an addiction, though harmless, that keeps me consumed with the computer.

I have discovered blogs on adoption, feminism, depressed moms, saving money, new beginnings, and every kind of religious and political blog you could imagine. I am so taken with the honesty of some people and the hidden agenda of others.

It is a bit like Alice in the Looking Glass. However, how honest are blogs. What is going on under the surface -- the inside that only you and God know -- that is not revealed.

I will never know many of the people in the blogs I read. What I do know is their lives help me live a little better.

Easy Egg Decorating

Use rubber bands to decorate Easter eggs. After hard-boiling the eggs, wrap rubber bands around them in any pattern, then dip in a container of dye. When the eggs dry, remove the bands. For additional colors, rewrap and repeat.

Thought of the Day - 4/11/09

Introspection can create a great deal of strength.

Thought of the Day - 4/10/09

The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.
~~ Denis Waitley ~~

Thought of the Day - 4/9/09

God's Boxes

I have in my hands two boxes,
Which God gave me to hold.
He said, Put all your sorrows in the black box,
And all your joys in the gold.

I heeded His words, and in the two boxes,
Both my joys and sorrows I stored,
But though the gold became heavier each day,
The black was as light as before.

With curiosity, I opened the black,
I wanted to find out why,
And I saw, in the base of the box, a hole,
Which my sorrows had fallen out by.

I showed the hole to God, and mused,
I wonder where my sorrows could be!
He smiled a gentle smile and said,
My child, they're all here with me.

I asked God, why He gave me the boxes,
Why the gold and the black with the hole?
My child, the gold is for you to count your blessings,
The black is for you to let go.

~~ Author Unknown ~~

Thursday Thirteen #11

All moms are busy moms, some busier than others, but we are all busy. How we find the time to blog always amazes me. But blog we must!

Why do we moms blog? There are hundreds of reasons, but here is a brief list:

1. We blog because we want family and friends around the world to get a snapshot of our daily lives.


2. We blog because we have stories to share.


3. We blog because we have pictures to show that we don't want to keep to ourselves.


4. We blog about extraordinary achievements, such as walking when we're told he may never walk or getting 100 points in Accelerated Reading in second grade when its usually not achieved until 3rd or 4th grade.


5. We blog about ordinary moments just to celebrate the importance of everyday life.


6. We blog because we have something to say or sometimes because we just need to vent.


7. We blog because we know our families are unique and because at the same time we need to know that we're not the only family in the world whose sweet children are sometimes disgusting or out of control.


8. We blog because we need advice.


9. We blog because we've found a way to do something that makes our lives easier and want to pass it on.


10. We blog because messy houses and wrinkled clothes are real and in this great crazy world, it's good to know we're all in this together, and that no matter what we do or say or feel, we can find reassurance that the kids will be okay as long as they are loved.


11. We blog to remember the good and to forget the bad.


12. We blog to feel connected. We want to prove that we, as mothers, all share the frustrations and upheavals, as well as the joys and delights of being a mother.


13. We blog because we know that we can learn from each other, and because any community -- even an Internet one -- is a positive thing.

To join the trend of Thursday Thirteen meme, go to Thursday Thirteen.

Works for Me Wednesday #15

Folding king size sheets is hard when you are only 5'1" tall and have troubles with your hands and shoulders, so I've been on a search for a simple, easy way to fold fitted sheets.

I found the answer. See the video below.




Join us as many share their tips and ideas at We Are THAT Family.

Be a Bread Artist

Decorate a slice of virtual bread for The Bread Art Project and $1 will be donated to food banks.

Check out my Art in the Toasting and get some serious facts about the food banks and the hungry in America.

Your participation in the Bread Art Project will help families in need. For every approved submission, the Grain Foods Foundation will donate $1 to Feeding America, the largest hunger relief organization in the U.S. That $1 will go much further than you'd think. In fact, Feeding America turns every dollar received into 10 pounds of grocery products for deserving men, women, and children. Since food banks are experiencing a 30% increase in demand since this time last year, there's never been a better time to support this important cause. With your help, we're on our way to providing 1 million pounds of groceries to hungry Americans.

Thought of the Day - 4/8/09

I Asked God

I asked God to take away my habit.
God said no. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said no. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience.
God said no. Patience is a by-product of tribulations. It isn't granted; it is learned.

I asked God to grant me happiness.
God said no. I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain.
God said no. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said no. You must grow on your own. But, I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said no. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.

I asked God to help me love others as much as He loves me.
God said, Ahhh... finally you have the idea.

Thought of the Day - 4/7/09

The Christian principles of acceptance, charity, and helping those in need should not be revoked at the very moment that someone needs them most.

On Behalf of the Planet, We Thank You

Earth Hour 2009 was an amazing success.

Lights went out in 4,085 cities in 88 countries in what is being described as the largest demonstration of public concern about climate change in history.

Check out this amazing view of the world going dark at:
www.boston.com/bigpicture/2009/03/earth_hour_2009.html

Thought of the Day - 4/6/09

Poverty cannot deprive us of many consolations. It cannot rob us of the affection we have for each other, or degrade us in our own opinion, of in that of any person, whose opinion we ought to value.
~~ Ann Radcliffe ~~

Make Me Laugh Monday - Blog vs. Food

Join me in the fun and giggles of making Mondays a better day by sharing some laughs. Add your link to your Make Me Laugh Monday post to Mr. Linky below. (All links not leading directly to your post will be deleted. All posts should be funny in some way. Yes, this is up to interpretation. Ideas include riddles, comic strips, jokes, silly graphics, funny lyrics, etc.)

Create Your Own 1001 Day Project

The Mission
Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

The Criteria
Tasks must be specific (i.e., no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (i.e., represent some amount of work on your part).

Why 1001 Days?
Many people have created lists in the past. The most common list-making is the simple goals of a New Year's resolutions. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year, because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organizing and timing some tasks such as overseas trips or outdoor activities.

Goal Setting Tips

1. Be decisive. Know exactly what you want, why you want it, and how you plan to achieve it.

2. Stay Focused. Any goal requires sustained focus from beginning to end. Constantly evaluate your progress.

3. Welcome Failure. Frequently, very little is learned from a venture that did not experience failure in some form. Failure presents the opportunity to learn and makes the success more worthy.

4. Write down your goals. It clarifies your thinking and reinforces your commitment.

5. Keep your goals in sight. Review them frequently, and ensure that they are always at the forefront of your thinking.

Unconscious Mutterings #5

Nina says, and I think . . .

Log :: fire, fireplace.
Plaything :: toys, kids, get organized, too much stuff.
Broom :: sweep, mop floor.
Heels :: No reason to wear them anymore. I don't go anywhere but doctor appointments.
Smoke in :: smoke out, no more smoking, I quit. I still crave a cigarette most days.
Guests :: I love company. Come visit me soon.
Attraction :: I believe in love at first sight. Most people don't know the difference between love and lust.
Shiny :: Bright Christmas ornaments.
Risked :: I used to love the strategy game of Risk. I haven't played it since my divorce eleven years ago.
Velvet :: Smooth, soft, luxurious.

Go see the mutterings and thoughts of others by going to Subliminal.

Thought of the Day - 4/5/09

The true and lasting source of our happiness comes from the joy that fills our hearts and overflows into the paths of those around us.

Locking Lips Boasts Health Advantages

We've all heard things like kissing burns calories (2 to 3 per minute), and generally boosts our self esteem (how could a smooch or two not?). But consider this:

Muscles
Did you know that we use 30 facial muscles when kissing (or furthermore, that we even have 30 facial muscles)? Say goodbye to baggy cheeks.

Dental
The extra saliva produced during a kiss helps break down oral plaque.

Cardiovascular
Kissing creates adrenaline, which prompts your heart to pump more blood through your body. Allegedly, frequent kissing has been scientifically proven to decrease blood pressure and cholesterol, too.

Nervous System
Kissing is said to calm your mind by increasing levels of oxytocin, a calming hormone, which creates a "peaceful feeling."

That said, what are you waiting for?! Grab your loved one and help give each other a little lift of health (and love)!

Thought of the Day - 4/4/09

Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you.
~~ Dr. Suess ~~

100 Things To Do

I am constantly amazed when I hear people, adults and children alike, say they are bored. Who has time to be bored? There is always things to do, some fun things, some mundane things, but things to do. Jokingly and to just to prove my point, I said I could come with a list of 100 things to do . . .

1. Read emails.
2. Reply to emails.
3. Write new emails.
4. Create a new blog.
5. Write a blog entry for current blog(s).
6. Go blog hopping.
7. Call friends.
8. Call family.
9. Play Solitaire.
10. Do puzzle books.
11. Play card games with kids.
12. Play board games with kids.
13. Read a magazine.
14. Read a book.
15. Read a book with kids.
16. Do flashcards (math facts) with kids.
17. Clean bathroom.
18. Clean kitchen.
19. Clean laundry area.
20. Clean living/family room.
21. Clean bedroom.
22. Clean second bedroom.
23. Clean third bedroom.
24. Clean basement.
25. Sweep front porch.
26. Sweep back porch.
27. Clean out garage.
28. Wash laundry.
29. Dry laundry.
30. Fold laundry.
31. Put laundry away.
32. Scrub walls.
33. Vacuum.
34. Clean out refrigerator.
35. Go for a walk.
36. Go for a walk with kids.
37. Do stretches (from OT and PT).
38. Exercise.
39. Ride a bike.
40. Go bicycling with kids.
41. Go bowling.
42. Write a letter.
43. Write a poem.
44. Write a list of things to do.
45. Write goals.
46. Write up a budget.
47. Learn something new.
48. Attend local community class on topic of your choice.
49. Create cards.
50. Create scrapbook pages.
51. Create ATCs (artist trading cards(.
52. Send RAK (random acts of kindness).
53. Organize scrapbook supplies.
54. Scan cards, scrapbooks pages, and other art.
55. Upload art and photographs to online site.
56. Scrapbook with kids
57. Draw or do other art.
58. Draw or do other art with kids.
59. Read a newspaper.
60. Listen to the radio.
61. Watch TV.
62. Watch TV with kids.
63. Watch a movie.
64. Watch a movie with kids.
65. Record new outgoing message for cell phone.
66. Record new outgoing message for house phone.
67. Surf the Internet.
68. Play games on the Internet.
69. Read mail at groups.
70. Find Internet groups to join.
71. Bake cookies, brownies, etc.
72. Bake with kids.
73. Cook.
74. Cook with kids.
75. Go grocery shopping.
76. Go to the local park.
77. Go to school playground.
78. Go to the store, any store.
79. Go to the post office.
80. Take pictures.
81. Upload pictures to computer.
82. Make phone calls for appointments.
83. Write in journal.
84. Write in kids' daily activity notebook.
85. Pray.
86. Pray with kids.
87. Do meditation.
88. Do meditation with kids.
89. Do research to find a new church home.
90. Read the Bible.
91. Read the Bible with kids.
92. Update kids' chore charts.
93. Organize papers.
94. Find new clients/customers for Usborne Books and Memory Works.
95. Find new clients for advocacy work.
96. Volunteer.
97. Clean windows.
98. Wash the dishes.
99. Dry the dishes.
100. Put the dishes away.
101. Send a text message.
102. Plant a garden.
103. Go on a nature hike with kids.
104. Go on a scavenger hunt with kids.
105. Go on a picture scavenger hunt with kids.
106. Give kids a hug.
107. Give kids a kiss.
108. Snuggle with kids.
109. Take a shower.
110. Take a bath.

I was pretty proud of myself for being able to come up with over 100 things to do in less than 5 minutes. Now write your own list of 100 things to do so next time someone says, there is nothing to do, you can tell them to read your list.

Drink More Water

Why drink more water?

The following will probably amaze and startle you.

One glass of water shuts down midnight hunger pangs for almost 100% of the dieters studied in a University study.

Lack of water is the #1 trigger of daytime fatigue.

Preliminary research indicates that 8-10 glasses of water a day could significantly ease back and joint pain for up to 80% of sufferers.

A mere 2% drop in body water can trigger fuzzy short-term memory, trouble with basic math, and difficulty focusing on the computer screen.

Drinking 5 glasses of water daily decreases the risk of colon cancer by 45%, plus it can slash the risk of breast cancer by 79%, and one is 50% less likely to develop bladder cancer.

Are you drinking the amount of water you should every day?

Water - The Beverage Your Body Needs Most

Drinking water is so important for good health. When you were a kid in school, you learned that each molecule of water is made up of two hydrogen atoms and one oxygen atom. You may also have learned that it was great fun to fill up your squirt guns with water, at least until the principal caught you. What you may not have learned, however, was how much water you needed in order to be a healthy human being.

Why You Need to Drink Water

Your body is estimated to be about 60 to 70 percent water. Blood is mostly water, and your muscles, lungs, and brain all contain a lot of water. Your body needs water to regulate body temperature and to provide the means for nutrients to travel to all your organs. Water also transports oxygen to your cells, removes waste, and protects your joints and organs.

Signs of Dehydration

You lose water through urination, respiration, and by sweating. If you are very active, you lose more water than if you are sedentary. Diuretics such as caffeine pills and alcohol result in the need to drink more water because they trick your body into thinking you have more water than we need.

Symptoms of mild dehydration include chronic pains in joints and muscles,lower back pain, headaches and constipation. A strong odor to your urine, along with a yellow or amber color indicates that you may not be getting enough water. Note that riboflavin, a B Vitamin, will make your urine bright yellow. Thirst is an obvious sign of dehydration and in fact, you need water long before you feel thirsty.

How Much Water do You Need to Drink?

A good estimate is to take your body weight in pounds and divide that number in half. That gives you the number of ounces of water per day that you need to drink. For example, if you weigh 160 pounds, you should drink at least 80 ounces of water per day. If you exercise you should drink another eight ounce glass of water for every 20 minutes you are active. If you drink alcohol, you should drink at least an equal amount of water. When you are traveling on an airplane, it is good to drink eight ounces of water for every hour you are on board the plane. If you live in an arid climate, you should add another two servings per day. As you can see, your daily need for water can add up to quite a lot.

Twenty percent of your water need will come from the foods you eat. The rest of your water need should come from the beverages you drink. Water is the best choice. Sodas have a lot of sugar in them, so if you drink sodas, you may take in more calories than you need. Herbal teas that aren't diuretic are fine. Sports drinks contain electrolytes and may be beneficial, just look out for added sugar and calories that you don't need. Juices are good because they have vitamins and nutrients.

Caffeinated beverages will also add to your daily water need. Even though caffeine is a diuretic, if you regularly consume caffeine, your body will regulate itself to that diuretic effect.

Drink Enough Water

It may be difficult to drink enough water on a busy day. Be sure you have water handy at all times by keeping a bottle for water with you when you are working, traveling, or exercising. If you get bored with plain water, add a bit of lemon or lime for a touch of flavor. There are some brands of flavored water available, but watch for extra calories.

Thought of the Day - 4/3/09

I'm a pretty successful guy, but when I go to an occasional reunion at my prep school, in ten seconds I'm not the CEO of a Fortune 500 company. I'm back to feeling like a clumsy nerd everyone else had fun picking on. Crazy, isn't it?
~~ Father of a Former Patient ~~

Thought of the Day - 4/2/09

Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.
~~ St Francis of Assisi, 1197-1253 ~~

Thought of the Day - 4/1/09

Once upon a time when people made more of their own things, they created more stories about their life experiences. They told these tales to each other... to celebrate, mourn, worship, and mostly to connect with each other. Sharing real-life stories was an essential element in forging friendships, alliances, families and communities. It brought individuals a greater intimacy with each other and, simultaneously, a stronger sense of self.
~~ Jack Maguire ~~

Spread the Word to End the Word

Most people don’t think of this word as hate speech, but that’s exactly what it feels like to millions of people with intellectual disabilities, their families, and friends. Using “retard” as a term of derision is just as cruel and offensive as any other slur.

Spread the Word to End the Word will raise the consciousness of society about the dehumanizing and hurtful effects of the R-word and encourage people to pledge to stop using it. America will be asked to declare their support for more respectful and inclusive language, specifically that referring to those with intellectual disabilities.



Have you taken the pledge? Let us know by signing Mr. Linky below.

Thought of the Day - 3/31/09

Your future is yours and yours alone. So don't let anyone else influence your hopes and wishes or tell you what goals you should start making for yourself. These people don't know you better than you, no matter how smart they are.

365 Days of Christmas is Hosting a Giveaway

Check out my blog 365 Days of Christmas for our first big giveaway. Judy Pancoast, a new friend, artist, composer, and producer of children's music has graciously offered a CD, "The House on Christmas Street" for our drawing. Go to 365 Days of Christmas for more information.

Around the 'Net - Free Songs for Kids

A new friend of mine, Judy Pancoast -- artist, composer, and producer of several kids CDs -- has just uploaded two more songs to Free Songs for Kids. This site offers original and FREE children's music. This is a wonderful site where many children's artists have contributed tunes that you can download for FREE for your children. The site also offers lyrics, sheet music, videos, lesson plans, and more. Check it out!

Make Me Laugh Monday - Me

The boss wondered why one of his most valued employees had not phoned in sick one day. Having an urgent problem with one of the main computers, he dialed the employee's home phone number and was greeted with a child's whisper.

"Hello."

"Is your daddy home?" he asked.

"Yes," whispered the small voice.

"May I talk with him?"

The child whispered, "No ."

Surprised and wanting to talk with an adult, the boss asked, "Is your Mommy there?"

"Yes ."

"May I talk with her?"

Again the small voice whispered, "No ."

Hoping there was somebody with whom he could leave a message, the boss asked, "Is anybody else there?"

"Yes," whispered the child, "a policeman".

Wondering what a cop would be doing at his employee's home, the boss asked, "May I speak with the policeman?"

"No, he's busy," whispered the child.

"Busy doing what?"

"Talking to Daddy and Mommy and the fireman," came the whispered answer.

Growing more worried as he heard a loud noise in the background through the earpiece on the phone, the boss asked, "What is that noise?"

"A helicopter," answered the whispering voice.

"What is going on there?" demanded the boss, now truly apprehensive.

Again, whispering, the child answered, "The search team just landed a helicopter."

Alarmed, concerned and a little frustrated the boss asked, "What are they searching for?"

Still whispering, the young voice replied with a muffled giggle, "Me."


Join me in the fun and giggles by sharing a silly story. Add your link to your Make Me Laugh Monday post to Mr. Linky below. (All links not leading directly to your post will be deleted. All posts should be funny in some way. Yes, this is up to interpretation. Ideas include riddles, comic strips, jokes, silly graphics, funny lyrics, etc.)

Keep Your Cellular Phone Safe

Have you ever wondered why phone companies don't seem interested in trying to prevent the theft of mobile phones? If you have ever lost your phone or had your phone stolen, and if you are on a plan, you still have to pay the remainder of the plan. On top of that you have to buy another handset and enter into another contract. This is more revenue for the phone company.

There is a simple way of making lost or stolen cellular phones useless to thieves. The mobile phone companies know about it, obviously, but don't share this tip with their customers. So I'll share:

To check your mobile phone's serial number, type star-pound-zero-six-pound (*#06#) on your phone:

A fifteen digit code will appear on the screen. This is unique to your handset. Write it down and keep it safe.

Should your mobile phone get lost or stolen, you can phone your service provider and give them this code. They will then be able to block your handset, so even if the thief changes the Sim card, your phone will be totally useless. You probably won't get your phone back, but at least you know that whoever stole it can't use/sell it either.

Why I'm a Girl Scout Leader

I'm not a Girl Scout Leader for the easy hours, high pay, parents' gratitude power or prestige.
I'm a Leader because I want the world for your daughter and mine
A world she can share and help shape,
A world of love and laughter where she can show compassion.
I want to help her learn to finish anything she starts and do it well and to guide her to know her worth with a deeper understanding of herself.
I want to help shape women who have strength of character and are sensitive to the needs of others.
I want them to be the best they can be - whether as career women or as homemakers, wives, or mothers who are the hearts of the family.
In giving of my time and myself I reap rewards far beyond what I give.
I receive a better world for my children and future generations.
I'm a Girl Scout Leader because I care.

Thought of the Day - Bonus #2

Thought of the Day - 3/30/09

Dreams are free
so free your dreams.

Thought of the Day - 3/29/09

If you keep focusing on everyone else’s journey, you’re going to stop paying quality attention to your own. What I mean by quality attention is attention free from jealousy, worry, envy, strife, etc.; just a calm, objective look at your own journey that can provide answers to help move you forward or to even determine what that journey should be in the first place.
~~ Brian Kim ~~

The Ultimate Blog Party - Winners

All the numbers have been tabulated (thanks to Random Number Generator), answers were reviewed for qualifying party go-ers, and finally winners chosen.

Many party go-ers did not read the introductions thoroughly and so were, unfortunately, removed from the final qualifying round. At each blog, I asked a specific question and kindly requested a specific answer. If the question was overlooked or not answered, the individual was sadly eliminated. Luckily, many party go-ers did read the introductions, so the winners are...

At All Things Cherished, Aunt Rene (#20) of Aunt Rene won Pillow Talk by iMom.

At 365 Days of Christmas, Blp3 (#28) of Let's Talk Politics won The Heart and Home of Christmas by Karla Dornacher.

At 365 Day of Memories, Jenny (#52, non-blogger) won the four pack of handmade cards made by me.

At 365 Days of Organization, Forest Green (#51) of Katrina Relocators won a planner.

Congratulations to all the winners!

Thanks to so many for all the compliments about me and my blogs this past week. I have been truly touched by your kindness.

Sing to Me Saturday #5

God Bless The USA
by Lee Greenwood

If tomorrow all the things were gone,
I’d worked for all my life.
And I had to start again,
with just my children and my wife.
I’d thank my lucky stars,
to be living here today.‘
Cause the flag still stands for freedom,
and they can’t take that away.
And I’m proud to be an American,
where at least I know I’m free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.
And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.‘
Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

From the lakes of Minnesota,
to the hills of Tennessee.
Across the plains of Texas,
From sea to shining sea.
From Detroit down to Houston,
and New York to L.A.
Well, there's pride in every American heart,
and its time we stand and say.
That I’m proud to be an American,
where at least I know I’m free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.
And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.‘
Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

And I’m proud to be and American,
where at least I know I’m free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.
And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.‘
Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

Check out video for a beautiful rendition of God Bless the USA.

Let me know what songs you cherish in your heart by adding your link to Mr. Linky below. Please link to your post and not to the main page of your blog. I look forward to seeing what songs my cherished followers and friends hold in their hearts.

Thought of the Day - 3/28/09

One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar.
~~ Helen Keller ~~

All About Memes

Let’s talk about memes, what they are, and why they are good for your blog.

What is a meme?
A meme is a group of bloggers who blog about something similar at a set time, and then visit each other in order to get to know each other better and grow traffic to their own blogs.

How does it work?
Generally, a meme is hosted by a particular blog. Some, like Thursday Thirteen, have a dedicated site of their own. Others, like Tackle It Tuesday are hosted by a pre-existing blog. Each week or month, depending on the meme, a new theme or topic is posted and then participants post links to their meme post. For example, every Thursday, Thursday Thirteen participants post a list of 13 things on a topic of their choice, and then post their link on the hosting site. Participants then visit each other throughout the week and leave comments for other participants.

What is the benefit?
Doing memes can bring in new readers and improves traffic stats. Regular participation will produce loyal readers and build a more personal connection with your readers, which is good for your blog.

Is a meme a good option for you?
Participating in a meme takes time. In order for it to be effective, you need to take the time to visit and comment on other participants blogs each week. Otherwise, they will quickly stop visiting you as well.

There are many memes to choose from on many different topics.

Aloha Friday #7

My question this week:

What is your favorite family movie?

Join the hostess, Kailani, at An Island Life to see other fun, thought-provoking questions.

One Day to Earth Hour 2009

3,900 cities and towns in 84 countries around the world will turn out for Earth Hour. More than 300 cities and towns in the U.S. representing 43 states and the District of Columbia are going dark as part of the largest global climate event in history. Before the rooster crows in most American cities on Saturday morning, lights will already have gone dark in cities like Christchurch, Sydney, and Brisbane. By breakfast time on the U.S. East Coast, the cities of Beijing, Kuala Lumpur, Jakarta, Singapore, and Manila will be celebrating the arrival of the largest global climate event in history. Just before lunchtime in America, the lights will be dimming in Mumbai, Amman, and Dubai. And by early afternoon in New York, it will be lights out in Paris, Istanbul, London, and Copenhagen.

Momentum continues to build. With just one day to go, Earth Hour continues to gain support in cities, with government leaders and celebrities, in the media, and on social networking sites.

Read all about it. Earth Hour coverage breaks nationally this week, with articles in People Magazine and The New York Times.

What will you be doing when the lights go out? From parties by candlelight to flashlight tag to simply going outside and enjoying the stars, there's no end to the ways people are planning to "turn out" for Earth Hour this weekend. What will you be doing? Tell us about it. Sign Mr. Linky below if you are planning to celebrate the largest climate shout-out in history.

Turn Out. Take Action.

Thought of the Day - Bonus

Thought of the Day - 3/27/09

In the midst of life's busy-ness, I am challenged . . .
to pause,
to breath deeply,
to contemplate.

Thought of the Day - 3/26/09

Happiness is your mind thinking through your heart.

Poverty . . . To Be or Not To Be

I'm 41, got a net worth of $0. Poverty is a subsidized house, an old used car with dents, dings, & rust, Goodwill & yard sale & passed down clothing, no money to travel & play, no money to save or invest, no retirement, no safety net, nothing.

I was recently told I don't know what poverty is. Most people who know me don't know I'm poor because this is not a fact to share with your neighbors, fellow PTO members, friends . . . even family.

I don't want to continually justify myself to others. I don't choose to be poor but I am. I don't choose to not be able to work a regular full-time job due to various health issues but I am not able to work. I don't choose to not have the financial help from the fathers of my children but I am a single mother.

I wouldn't change anything because I am home with my children when they need me. I wish I had better health, I wish the father's would pay their child support, I wish I had more money for basics.

I may not be able to go out to a restaurant for dinner, I may not be able to afford luxuries like a cellular phone, I may not be able to sign my kids up for fun activities like dance or karate. But I'd rather be poor and home for my children.

I may be poor but I am not low class.

Thought of the Day - 3/25/09

Thought of the Day - 3/24/09

I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.
~~ Audrey Hepburn ~~

Thought of the Day - 3/23/09

Anything of quality takes time.

Make Me Laugh Monday - Supermarket Surround Sound

New Supermarket Surround Sound

The new supermarket near my house has an automatic water mister to keep the produce fresh. Just before it goes on, you hear the sound of distant thunder and the smell of fresh rain. When you approach the milk cases, you hear cows mooing and smell the scent of fresh hay. When you approach the egg case, you hear hens cluck & cackle and the air is filled with the pleasing aroma of bacon & eggs frying. The vegetable department features the smell of fresh buttered corn.

I don't buy toilet paper there any more.


Join in making Mondays better by smiling &/or laughing. Share a joke, a comic strip, a picture, a riddle . . . as long as its clean (remember we are a family blog). Add the link to your post to Mr. Linky below.

Thought of the Day - 3/22/09

Honor your identity, fulfill your dreams, and reignite your passion.

Thought of the Day - 3/21/09

Love is everything it's cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.
~~ Erica Jong ~~

Aloha Friday #6

In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is a day to take it easy and look forward to the weekend so Kailani at An Island Life thought that Fridays should be easy posting day too. I’ll ask a simple question. You respond with an answer, nothing that requires a lengthy response.

This week's question:

What's your favorite cleaning product? Why?

To participate and see other questions, go to Aloha Friday.

The Ultimate Blog Party - I Want to Win

The Ultimate Blog Party is about meeting mom bloggers and having fun. It's also about winning prizes. The prizes I would love to win are (in no particular order):

• #19 -- $50 Target Gift Certificate
• #21 -- $50 Target Gift Certificate
• #41 -- Photo Tile Necklace
• #103 -- Surprise Box
• #23 INTL -- Blog Makeover
• #28 INTL -- Blog Design
• #35 INTL -- Blog Design

Wish me luck!

Spring

It's the first day of Spring . . .


Springtime is the land awakening. The March winds are the morning yawn.
~~ Lewis Grizzard ~~

Spring is nature's way of saying, "Let's party!"
~~ Robin Williams ~~

Spring makes its own statement, so loud and clear that the gardener seems to be only one of the instruments, not the composer.
~~ Geoffrey B. Charlesworth ~~

It was one of those March days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade.
~~ Charles Dickens ~~


It's the first day of Spring . . . for me the first day of new.


Today, I got a hair cut -- 13 inches of hair -- cut. T-h-i-r-t-e-e-n inches! I needed a change and what better day for a new change, a new look than the first day of Spring?!




I have donated my hair to Locks of Love too. I am so happy to be able to do this for others. As a survival of cancer and chemotherapy, I understand the need to feel accepted and not ostracized due to being bald.


What is Locks of Love?

Locks of Love is a public non-profit organization that provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children in the United States and Canada under age 18 suffering from long-term medical hair loss from any diagnosis. We meet a unique need for children by using donated hair to create the highest quality hair prosthetics. The prostheses we provide help to restore their self-esteem and their confidence, enabling them to face the world and their peers.

Mission Statement of Locks of Love

Our mission is to return a sense of self-confidence and normalcy to children suffering from hair loss by utilizing donated ponytails to provide the highest quality hair prosthetics to financially disadvantaged children. The children receive hair prostheses free of charge or on a sliding scale, based on financial need.

Happy Spring!

What did you do today to celebrate the first day of Spring?

Thought of the Day - 3/20/09

Your closest relationships are growing even closer, but don't miss out on opportunities to start new ones, either. There is plenty of room in your life for friendship.

Thursday Thirteen #10

Tomorrow is the first day of Spring and I am going to get my hair cut to celebrate. Why is this a big deal? I'm getting, at least, 9 inches cut off.

Thirteen Reasons Why I am Cutting Hair

1. I am cutting my hair because it does not look healthy because of all the split ends.
2. I am cutting my hair because my hair is heavy.
3. I am cutting my hair because, I think, the heaviness of my hair causes some of my headaches.
4. I am cutting my hair because its time for a change.
5. I am cutting my hair because its been 6 years since I had a hair cut.
6. I am cutting my hair because I cannot comb the knots out by myself due to the long length.
7. I am cutting my hair because my daughter, 7, has to comb my hair for me.
8. I am cutting my hair because at night the dogs are constantly laying on my hair. Ouch!
9. I am cutting my hair because my hair often gets stuck in my coat zipper, shirt buttons, and necklaces.
10. I am cutting my hair because trying to style my hair is useless due to the long length.
11. I am cutting my hair because I am tired of pony-tails.
12. I am cutting my hair because I use a lot of shampoo and conditioner, a big waste.
13. I am cutting my hair because I use a lot of hair color because one box is not enough to cover all of my hair.

After this list, I guess its about time to cut my hair. Good thing I already scheduled my hair salon appointment.

Check out other fun, witty, interesting lists at Thursday Thirteen.

What is Blogging

What is blogging?

This is an overview of the development of weblogs and an introduction to the ways you might use a weblog.

Blogs are frequently updated web pages on which authors post short comments about news items, interesting websites, their thoughts, and more. Blogs are part of a publishing revolution that allows individuals to express themselves to the world. Blogs are easy to create, easy to maintain, and fun to read.

(n.) Short for Web log, a blog is a Web page that serves as a publicly accessible personal journal for an individual. Typically updated daily, blogs often reflect the personality of the author.

(v.) To author a Web log.

Other forms: Blogger (a person who blogs).

A Short History

In the early days of the Internet, each new page was a cause for celebration. The early pioneers watched in excitement as the network grew, and they wanted to keep people informed about this growth. In 1992, Internet pioneer Tim Berners-Lee created the first "What’s New" page. Later, another pioneer, Marc Andreesen, put up a similar page. Each had hot-links to the new pages springing up on the Net.

As the Internet grew and the World Wide Web came about, other programmers created hand-coded pages with their recommendations for surfing the Net. Justin Hall started his filter log in 1994. In 1998, Jorn Barger coined the term “weblog.”

Soon, says weblogger and author Rebecca Blood, these “link-driven sites” were very popular, and webloggers became a community. Each weblog included a list of similar filter sites.

In 1999, website Blogger began to offer a simpler way to create a weblog. This hosted service allowed any person to easily sign up, create a blog, and write numerous postings. All without having to know HTML.

Since then, millions of weblogs have been created. The term is now pronounced web-log or we-blog, but usually shortened to blog. These blogs evolved into personal diaries or journals.

Many journal-blogs still do include a list of other similar sites. This is a called a blogroll.

So, get blogging, so we can learn more about you and share more in your life.

The Ultimate Blog Party - Let's Party

Welcome to All Things Cherished!

My Brief Introduction

I am: a single mother, a foster mother, a college graduate, a Master's of Education candidate, a feminist, a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a niece, a heterosexual, a lover and owner of Chihuahuas, a lover and previous owner of Cocker Spaniels, eclectic, sassy, unique, allergic to milk, an Internet addict, a Christian, a friend, a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, a counselor, a teacher, a kid at heart, an adult, a woman, a female, a sexual assault survivor, someone working to prevent sexual assault, a chocoholic, a book lover, a scrapbook artist, a photographer, German, Welsh, American, 5'1", a blog junkie, a Christmas fanatic, an advocate for children, supporter of education, a crime show watcher, a hopeful writer . . . I am ME.

My Long Introduction

I'm Storm (my middle name) and I am a single Mother. I also have to earn some money to support my family so I am a Supervisor and Consultant for Usborne Books, Sales Consultant for Memory Works, Educational Advocate and Consultant, as well as the owner of two home businesses -- DawnLyn's Designs and Litz's Business Services.

I am a single mother to three wonderful children: (1.) Cameron, my son, 10 going on 11 in four weeks, is disabled (bipolar/ADHD/ODD/OCD/Sensory Integration Disorder/speech problems) and is very generous with his heart and very loyal to his family and friends. He's such a handsome young man. (2.) Cassandra, my daughter, 7, going-on-15, is gifted, beautiful, smart, and sassy. Cassandra has severe asthma and chronic bronchitis, and is learning French. (3.) Renee, 9, is my foster daughter, who is also disabled (FAE, borderline Mild Retardation; Adjustment Disorder; still doing testing & evaluations to determine disability), is shy, quiet, and sweet.

Champ, a Chihuahua, 1, is living with friends at the moment. Baby, a Chihuahua, approximately 2, is a stray and the newest member of the Litz family.

More About Me

I have always enjoyed writing as a creative outlet and hope to publish a novel some day of the antics of my life. I don't think I am artistic but do feel I am creative; hence, my love of scrapbooking and Christmas decorating.

I am passionate about health and safety issues as they relate to my family, especially concerning mental health issues and protecting children's rights -- which is why I am an Educational Advocate and Consultant.
In my past life I was a special education teacher, a elementary education teacher, a community college teacher, a drug & alcohol rehabilitation counselor, a vocational counselor, a pregnancy counselor, a therapist, an administrative specialist in the Army, an intelligence specialist in the Army, a TSS (therapeutic service specialist), a BSC (behavioral specialist consultant), and much more.

To learn more about my love of scrapbooking, go to 365 Days of Memories.
To learn more about my love of Christmas, go to 365 Days of Christmas.
To learn more about getting organized, go to 365 Days of Organization.

The Party

Welcome to my cherished life.

When I host a party, at home or online, I serve . . . pizza rolls with several types of sauces, various flavors of chips with dill dip, chocolate chip cookies, cocktail meatballs & wieners, and tortilla chips with taco dip.

Here are some of my favorite recipes.

Chocolate Chip Cookies

2-1/2 c all-purpose flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 c butter or margarine
1/2 c shortening
1 c brown sugar, packed
1/2 c granulated sugar
2 eggs
1-1/2 tsp vanilla
1 12-oz. package (2 c) chocolate chips -- I usually add more than this.

Stir together flour, soda, and salt. In a mixer bowl, beat butter and shortening on medium speed for 30 seconds. Add sugars and beat until fluffy. Add eggs and vanilla. Beat well. Add dry ingredients to beaten mixture, beating until well combined. Stir in chocolate chips.

Drop from a teaspoon 2 inches apart onto an ungreased cookie sheet. Bake in a 375* oven for 8 to 10 minutes. Remove and let cool. Makes about 60.

Cocktail Meatballs

1 lb ground beef/chuck
1/2 cup dry bread crumbs
1/3 c finely chopped onions
1/4 c milk
1 Tbsp parsley
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp Worcestershire sauce
1/8 tsp pepper
1 egg
1/4 c shortening

Sauce
1 10-oz. ketchup
1 10-oz. grape jelly

Mix ground beef, bread crumbs, onion, milk, parsley, salt, Worcestershire sauce, pepper, and egg. Shape into 1” balls. Cook meatballs in shortening in 12” skillet until brown. Remove and drain excess fat. Heat 1-10 oz bottle ketchup and 1-10 oz jar grape jelly in skillet, stir constantly till jelly is melted. Add meatballs and stir until coated. At this point you can put into a crockpot on low. Simmer 30 minutes. Serve hot. Makes 5 dozen.

Giveaways

I have prizes to share each of the blogs (listed above).

Here, at All Things Cherished, the prize is an awesome journal you share with your child. Pillow Talk is a creative way to communicate with your child. Got a secret to share, some admiration to express, or a word of thanks for a job well done? Why not put it in writing? On the pages of Pillow Talk, you'll find 100 relationship building questions for you and your child to answer. In today's world of virtual communication, give your kids the real deal. Something tangible they can see and touch and look at again and again, whenever they want to feel connected with you. The journal is an awesome way to bond with your child(ren) and I am so happy to be able to give one to a lucky winner.

If you are interested in Pillow Talk, please a comment as to why you are interested in receiving this prize.

At 365 Days of Memories, the prize is a four-pack of handmade cards. I love scrapbooking and paper-crafting. Recently, I have gotten some very nice compliments on my cards. I am excited to give one lucky winner a pack of four cards for various occasions and holidays.

At 365 Days of Christmas, the prize is a lovely, hardcover book titled The Heart & Home of Christmas by Karla Dornacher. Artist Karla Dornacher celebrates the Christmas season with her first holiday title. Page after cozy page features her signature artwork with its warm and home-style feel, along with her gentle words of inspiration. I love this book and am so excited to be able to share it with one lucky winner.

At 365 Days of Organization, the prize is a high-quality, full-color planner. You have a choice of one planner from primary age through high-school aged children or adults. The dates are from July 2009 through June 2010 so, of course, they are current calendars. There are quotes and other misc. information included. I am happy to be able to share two planners with two lucky winners.

Thanks for stopping by.

Thought of the Day - 3/19/09

People will forget what you said.
People will forget what you did.
But people will never forget how you made them feel.

Works for Me Wednesday #14

You can add a cup of peroxide instead of bleach to a load of whites in your laundry to whiten them. If there is blood on clothing, pour directly on the soiled spot. Let it sit for a minute, then rub it and rinse with cold water. Repeat if necessary.

Check out more great household tips at We Are THAT Family.

Simply Healthy #3

Feeling energetic and taking care of yourself will make you happier and healthier. Boost your energy by taking a different route to work or the park, prioritizing the day’s chores with a to-do list, &/or spending time outdoors.

Thought of the Day - 3/18/09

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
~~ Harriet Tubman ~~

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Thought of the Day - 3/17/09

Beauty, truth, friendship, love, creation -- these are the great values of life. We can't prove them, or explain them, yet they are the most stable things in our lives.
~~ Jesse Herman Holmes ~~

Around the 'Net - Plinky

The fact that there are tens of thousands of results for "blogger's block" suggests that more than a few of you have struggled to think of what to say on your blog at one time or another. If that sounds like you, you might want to take a look at Plinky. Plinky is the brainchild of one of the original Blogger team-members, Jason Shellen, and we've enjoyed seeing what people have come up with in the first few weeks of answering Plinky prompts.

Every day Plinky provides a prompt (i.e. a question or challenge) and you answer. They make it simple to add rich media and share your answers on Facebook, Twitter, and blogs.

Not only does Plinky provide help with what to post to your Blogger blog, but it also helps your answers look good in the process. Depending on the prompt, answers contain rich media elements like maps, photos, lists and cover art for books, movies and albums. It's easy to tell Plinky that you use Blogger and all your answers posted through Plinky can go right to your blog.

What are you waiting for? Go answer a prompt.

Simply Healthy #2

Getting too much sleep or too little sleep can trigger a headache so pay attention to your sleep patterns.

The Ultimate Blog Party 2009 - Are You Coming?

The Ultimate Blog Party is a carnival for you to meet other mom bloggers, have fun, and win prizes, so get out and meet & greet.

Head on over to 5 Minutes for Mom to get all the details, links, and other information you need to party with me, Janice and Susan from 5 Minutes for Mom, and all the other great mom bloggers out there.

See you around the blogosphere.

Please Raise Your Hand!

Everyone Against Abortion, Please Raise Your Hand!

To see a touching, heart-wrenching one-minute video go to Everyone Against Abortion. Though it's only 1 minute long, the beautiful message that "Raise Your Hand" will imprint on your mind and engrave on your heart will last the rest of your life.

You can take action by praying, by looking at pictures, and by letting others know this is against God's wishes.

Make Me Laugh Monday - How to Decide Who to Marry

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports,. And she should keep the chips and dip coming.
-- Alan, age 10


Join us in making Mondays fun by sharing a joke, riddle, comic, funny story, funny song, etc., by adding your link to Mr. Linky below. Please add the link to your funny post (not the link to the front page of your blog) so we can all blog hop and have fun together.

Thought of the Day - 3/16/09

Giving to others enables you also to connect to others.

Blog Redesign Contest

Tena over at Punky Monkey’s has teamed up with Sara over at Subjective Beauty to give away a one-of-a-kind custom blog design to one lucky person. To enter this contest, you have to post an entry so here I am. Sara is very passionate and have done many blogs of many of my favorite bloggers.

Go to Subjective Beauty to check out her awesome work, go to Punky Monkeys for some fun reading, and don't forget to send both ladies some bloggy love by leaving comments.

I so would LOVE to win this! Wish me luck!